I’m desperate need, even asking for any help gives me anxiety so this has been a very difficult choice. I really would appreciate any kindness thrown my way…
This is a very humbling experience and difficult to do but I’m stuck, I need to get married in order to stay in the USA with Sir (we have been together over 5 years) but we have no money, no income as his disability case is still in appeal and we need $120 to get married, any help would be amazing, generous and greatly appreciated. https://www.facebook.com/pages/This-Matter-of-Marriage/463456437056410 If anyone helps, I’m forever in your debt.
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I didn’t realize how difficult it would be for Sir and I to adjust to living in America. Sir has been living and working in Australia for four years and he is finding it difficult to obtain work now. Here we are, no work, no place of our own. I went from owning my home, a business, playing sports and lots of friends to just having each other. My first wish is for Sir to find work. Second wish is a place to live. Third is friends. There are many many other things but they are neither here nor there.
I had been in a vanilla marriage going on ten years and it’s decline started from the moment we said “I do”.
His closest friend’s sister decided my husband was the man for her. So his friend went about orchestrating a living nightmare for me. Our marriage survived but it was never the same.
I was under the impression that the man I married was strong, in control, powerful and so forth. Not the case. He couldn’t make decisions or think for himself (his parents made every decision), had no ambition (he was highly skilled and gifted), and the final straw for me, his drug and alcohol addiction.
I asked for a divorce.
He didn’t take to the idea of a divorce well at all. If our neighbor hadn’t intervened and called the police, I would not be alive today.
I negotiated the divorce with his parents, we lied on the papers and said we’d been separated for over a year so it would be over quickly.
Three months later he remarried. For me, it was a relief.